A red flag in my heart

I Been awake laying in my bed and I was thinking of something that is bothering me but more confusing and unknown to me. I been in a relationship for two months now it's a fairly new relationship but we knew each other longer then that. we are a very progressive young couple and we have an understanding of each other and how we feel about certain ideas and issues for our new relationship and it's going swimmingly and I never have been this happy. Now I have a worry just one small worry which seems to start getting out of hand here and I felt if I didn't write this I will explode. let me start from where this started to be an issue. In the beginning of the relationship he was honest to tell me that he can never love me because he just cant go through this, he dealt with allot in the past so I understood and I wasn't sure what to think of it but nothing to anger me. eventually he told me that he does in fact love me which was great because I do too. so we both love each other and everything is fine and dandy. today which was 5 in the morning he was taking me home and on the ride to dropping me off home I mentioned to him that he told me why he cant love me and I went to ask how do you love me now. so he replied and I love that he was honest and I'm thankful he did and I will tell you later. he told me that he does love me but he does not"deeply" love or is "in love" with me. At that moment I processed that pretty well but I was not prepared because It saved me from crashing and burning to what I would potentially tell him. I don't know how to go about this without being too wordy or not wordy enough but I feel that I am falling for him, really hard like a sack of bricks falling to a concrete floor. now this is where it gets complicated. I have been in a relationship before so I'm not a nooby but I never was "in love" once I thought I was but I forced myself and I knew it was fabricated that I did realize it wasn't healthy and it didn't last and the worst part I didn't even love him its bad but the relationship lasted three years I'm not going to get into it because it wasn't a great relationship and it's the past a person that I'm not like I was. so this right here are real feelings I have for this guy and I never really experienced it and the fast that I think is happening to early makes me think is this real am I really In love or do I think that I feel that I am in love? because I think I know I am In love but thinking is the process before I actually know. Going back to where I was before after he told me this inside of me I heard a shattered glass and I was glad i did not tell him what I was going to say which would have been something in the lines of " So I been feeling this for a while now and I think that I am falling for you". If I actually told him that how hilarious would the next scene of events be? it would either end the relationship their or really make a huge dramatic pause that a new can of warms would be open and the damn lid will not close. I stayed quiet for the rest of the car ride home. he dropped me off i went in and changed and laid in bed. It made me think what now? am I really in love, or is it a delusion? should I tell him what I am feeling maybe he can help me out or would that be a bad idea. I would like if anyone can shed some light on this? what should I do?. I think it will take time before I know for sure if I;m in love or not I need time to actually figure it out but all I know is that I love him more then anything, when he kisses me I get tingles through out my body and shivers down my spine, when I'm in his arms I fell so safe and calm, from the time we first went out to this day i still get butterfly s, when I see him and I cant stop my smiling, And I never have felt as if my existence ever mattered as it does now and so much more that I can go on and on but I have to wrap this up or I am going to slip into a coma, I haven't slept and I need to lay down and to end this I need to go feed my cat because it is 7 am and she is giving me angry looks. so if anyone has any advice or anything to say I would appreciate your help.